10 ways to become ostracized in SL
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I have not posted anything lately, mostly due to my own lack of activity in SL. However, I just updated some of my profile entry just yesterday, and incidentally, Jagerkins also made his this blog entry two days ago. The similarity to the sentiment of my own on this subject matter is striking to say the least.
Some of the points, I have not experienced because mostly I avoid having a contact with such person with " 1. people with no tact 4.Continue to shouting for attention when busy " ... Not that I have not seen them. But I do not remain in contact with those type of person in general.
As for the rest of the points, I agree with 110% enthusiasm.
The really weird thing about SL reflecting in this list and my sentiments I have been repeating regarding SL relationship in general is that, I rarely (almost never) encounter these type of people in RL. EVER.
That should tell you/me something about the characteristic of SL demographic/populous.
For instance:
7. Become draining
Barrage someone with a problem. Every. Fucking. Day. Be it made up crap due to insecurities or a legit problem blown out of proportion, crying to someone about a “problem” every day can tear at a person’s patience. Blaming the person for everything is also a guaranteed way to cause someone to become homicidal.
You just don't burden others with complaints of your whole damn life. Especially, to your friend, whatever your description of friend might be. And they become appalled when we go ape shit when we can't take it anymore.
What I really think is this. Those who bitch about their problems and blaming everything else but themselves to you, DOES NOT VALUE YOU and YOUR friendship. Period.
10. Have full entitlement for being on someone’s friend list
Put a lot of weight on your own importance in another’s SL just for being on their friend list. Even though you know nothing about the person who just accepted your friendship offer, expect to have rights to being let into their homes, having free stuff if they are a merchant, full map rights, building perms and so on. Expect their SL to revolve around you while you’re at it. Raise a stink if you aren’t given any of the above.
Put a lot of weight on your own importance in another’s SL just for being on their friend list. Even though you know nothing about the person who just accepted your friendship offer, expect to have rights to being let into their homes, having free stuff if they are a merchant, full map rights, building perms and so on. Expect their SL to revolve around you while you’re at it. Raise a stink if you aren’t given any of the above.
Not just on the friend list, but the entitlement on anything and everything.
What the fuck is wrong with those people?" I don't even know you. You can't even show your picture of yourself, nor what your occupation is, nor where you live. In short, I don't trust you, therefore, you do not deserve to assume anything from me. " (Jagerkin mention this in other part of this article.)
Is that so fucking hard to understand? Apparently, it is to those dumb asses.
Although the amusement comes after either: I made blog entry about the experience with one of those people, or tell them in plain language personally, they usually start blaming me for not loyal to "our friendship" that I never had with them. Again, such a complete entitlement complex.
