So How's your SL relationship?

"Are we really happy with this lonely game we play,
Looking for the right words to say?
Searching but not finding -- understanding anyway,
We're lost in this masquerade."

- Leon Russell, This Masquarade


REALITY CHECK!

I have been saying in here, in SL, constantly, that one should NOT try to substitute their RL with SL.

You just can't have a fabulous relationship that last long and forever with pixel avatar. If you are lacking something in RL, you just can't magically make up everything else in SL. Well, except for very few things such as shapely ass or mansion on the beach.

Again and again, astounding numbers of adults just can't keep themselves from having UNREALISTIC expectation of perfect relationship in SL, and believing that it can also be perfect and lasting relationship in RL.


PEOPLE, I know its a Christmas time, but, THERE ARE NO SANTA! lol

Your seemingly sweet, perfectly handsome dude with bad attitude cannot be some perfect, intelligent, responsible cute boytoy in RL. (Believe me. I know what's a cute boy toy can do. They have its use, but not for relationship, let alone *life together*? FORGET IT. lol)

I sometime spend my money on cute little things. They amuse me. They think they can charm me. The fact that they believe they can charm me amuse me a lot. Its an innocent game. They know what they can expect from me, and I do not have stupid illusions about them, either.

Many people says that SL is not a game. But I beg to defer, and time and again, I proved i'm right.

You just CANNOT mix SL and expect them to become that dream come true. You just do not wake up in the next morning, having this shapely ass you have in SL . LOL
But then, you plan all kinds of shit for RL, the dude you are screwing in SL, is now screwing your Whole RL... if you have one.

Ok, that happens a lot. They deserve it right. Right.

The thing is... Aftermath of this perpetual drama of *SL, mistaken it with RL, then got screwed in RL* spilled over back in SL.


"Oh I met this dude, he was fabulous, he is so sweet and handsome, I'm moving in with him in Spring."
Packing up things, bundle up their daughters/sons.
The dude is divorced, or *in process of * divorce. (Yea ALWAYS. thats what they say.)

snorts. over and over and over

Gave him money, but he screw me and left me.
I overdose my meds.
I slit my wrist, but doctor said put bandaid on them. (snorts)

My prediction.

(sniffles) " I was mistakedn. He screwed me and please help me picking up my pieces. I am so depressed and I need all my friends with me. ... ... ..."


NO. We are not your friends. You think you can get back into the drama queen routine that easily, so people can wipe your snot with our own tissues?

HELL NO.

By the way, if you want to learn how to play those love games with cute bad boys who never ties their long hair in bed?
I teach you how to do it correctly, how to do it right.

1.Spend money on them. Never *lend* them money.
2.Make yourselves available all the time, so you will be there when they need you.
3.Never make yourselves available, so you will not be looking like desperate woman.
4.Call them when they need you.
5.Do not call them when you need them.
6.Treat them with something their lovers/girlfriends can't afford, like convertible car or Harley davidson, make it look like effortless. And never bring it up to remind them about it again.
7. Never ask them where they have been.
8.Do not call them just to ask them "how they are".
9. Always available for sex. but do not let them know you are, and know how to seduce them at least expected places.








Oh, wait. This is not the advise for bedroom games.

These are tips for successful marriage. LMAO


By the way. Are you still going to see your SL partner in RL?